I’m just basically grateful
I’m just basically grateful to not have that burden. Think about what it’s like to be extremely attractive. People focusing on your physical aspects and not hearing/seeing you. Focusing your resources on maintaining your physical gifts and realizing there’s always going to be someone younger or more attractive no matter what you do. It’s like the difference between using your resources to buy a car that decreases in value every year v/s making an investment in a financial account that grows in value every year. I like to be around people that grow, instead of depreciating.
I suspect my prejudice comes from 25 years of professional experiences. Many times attractive people are drawn to functions that reward them for being attractive. Those aren’t the type of functions that I usually need to fulfill. I need people that know how to manage themselves, have the maturity to be responsible and committed, and who focus on developing their expertise, not their appearance.I’ve seen a lot of inappropriate situations develop from the presence of extremely attractive people. Those situations tend to not be the fault of the attractive person; their presence just seems to attract the wrong type of focus. That focus can result in strong temptations towards inappropriate connections or unethical processes.
I’ve also been thinking about how the interview process is a mutual selection process. If you were being interviewed and you felt your selection was dependant on your looks, would you really want to work there?
As I think about it, there’s a shrinking pool of careers that require attractiveness. There are some successful movie actors that are downright ugly. Tony Robbins isn’t exactly beautiful, but he is tall. TV may be the last bastion for attractive people to find jobs. Reality shows – attractive people, day & evening soap operas – attractive people. Ah, but that’s not quite true. In Donald Trump’s “Apprentice”, “The Donald’s” not attractive (except for that aura of power and money), George seems to be authentically old, Caroline’s improving, but ALL the apprentices are slender & attractive. Just thought of another reality show, “Project Runway” had some attractive and some not so attractive people competing and I’m willing to bet the.
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